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March 02, 2017

The Epidemic of
Gay LonelinessBy Michael Hobbes

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“I used to get so ecstatic when the meth was all gone.”

This is my friend Jeremy.

“When you own it,” he says, “you have to keep using it. When it’s gone, it’s like, ‘Oh wonderful, I can go assist to my life now.’ I would stay up all weekend and leave to these sex parties and then feel love shit until Wednesday. About two years ago I switched to cocaine because I could work the next day.”

Jeremy is telling me this from a hospital bed, six stories above Seattle. He won’t tell me the explicit circumstances of the overdose, only that a stranger called an ambulance and he woke up here.

Jeremy is not the confidant I was expecting to have this conversation with. Until a few weeks ago, I had no idea he used anything heavier than martinis. He is trim, intelligent, gluten-free, the kind of guy who wears a labor shirt no matter what day of the week it is. The first time we met, three years ago, he asked me if I knew a good place to do CrossFit. Today, when I ask him how the hospital’s been so far, the first thing he says is that there’s no Wi-

being pan must suck like

Look. I don't want to sound ungrateful but I just have to tell this.

So I'm like...pretty grunge-y right? 98% of my wardrobe is shadowy and the other 2% I don't wear. I'm planning on painting my room black. I listen to metal. I have a mop of fucking curly, ass length hair and I want to comprehend the guitar.

Overall I'm just to-a-t 90s cliché alternative.

As I said, I crave to learn guitar but I'm needy and can't bear lessons so I was thinking I'll just save up to buy an acoustic and coach myself. Total Phoebe Buffay deal right?

Anyway I mentioned that a while ago to my fam but we've been skint broke for ages and covid did NOT help. But Mum kept offering result in it was something I really wanted and these days it's rare I get enthusiastic about anything.

I insisted I could wait so that's just where we left off a few months ago. My mum just messaged me out the cobalt asking if I still want a guitar and attached was a pic of this semi acoustic her mate was selling. So like cute right??? Mum remembered something about me and wants to become me something that'll make me happy!! I really appreciat

Marshall Thornton

Every so often, on the Internet or in discussion, the concept of post-gay comes up. Often it’s brought up by people who don’t even perceive the phrase but do grasp the concept. Post-gay is the idea that the queer collective, even though we haven’t yet gotten our full civil rights, will soon be just fond of everyone else; that we will not need to define ourselves by our sexuality anymore than a heterosexual might.

Whenever this comes up it irks me to no end. Do people include their heads in the sand? Don’t they look around? Yes, some scholars have deemed that we’re in a post-feminist era, while others have declared a post-black era. However, I’m adorable sure if you ask women or African-Americans you’ll find that most do not agree that we live in a upload anything. Every day women are fighting against the rollback of their reproductive rights, something that would be completely unnecessary in a truly post-feminist world. In a post-black world the invalidation of Affirmative Action laws would be a non-event, there’d be no press coverage, the NAACP would not object – in fact, they’d have no membership. On a more simplistic level, ask yourself this question, in a post-black wo

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