Questions to ask gay people

I’ve always been thick, emotional, moody, and existential. As an Aquarius-Virgo-Virgo, I’ve create comfort in the ebb and flow of casual online dating while simultaneously over-analyzing every conversation, write, photo, and gesture my potential boyfriend is making. My innately chaotic online dating energy has molded me into the incredibly knowledgeable top-notch Perfect First Go out Professional I am today.

It’s all about the questions that spark and transport the conversation. Most of my first experiences in individual dating were with women, so my go-to questions were expected, if not already asked by the person I was seeing. As I started recently dating men again, I was thrown into a identity shock of just how gay homosexual dating is. The following are very real examples of questions on first dates, most of them asked without much context. While some of these first dates spurred from an actual friendship (so, a more acceptable scenario to ask unhinged questions), most of these were under an app context where I literally did not recognize the person.

I wouldn’t recommend using these unless you long to become someone’s therapist or completely scare them away.


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A Gay in the Life: Six oblivious questions that lgbtq+ people get asked

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“But isn’t entity gay a choice?” This is among the many questions I have gotten since I came out as homosexual in 8th grade. At times, the questions have been fairly legitimate, but others have been less so. Sometimes, they can even border on insulting. I try and make sure that I respond to these respectfully, but I make it clear that these questions can be offensive. I also say they can either not inquire that question in the future or give them a way to inquire it in a more polite way.

In this article I am going to answer and ruin down why these questions should not be asked.

“Are you guys brothers?”

This scrutinize comes up a lot for homosexual couples. I contain seen it come about in public and someone asked me first hand. This is funny to me because, most of the moment, they do not really look alike. It probably has to do with how the couple hang out together in such a loving way. It seems that people find it easier to assume that they are brothers and not a couple.



Since October is LGBTQ History Month (not to be confused with Pride Month held in June), there will probably be plenty of panels discussing the importance of diversity and LGBTQ issues.

So here are my top 35 potential LGTBQ panel discussion questions for Pride Month or LGBTQ History Month. You will not ask them all, but perhaps they might provide some inspiration as you develop your own list.

LGBTQ Panel Discussion Questions

  1. What does LGBTQQIP2SAA pose for?
  2. What is the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity?
  3. How do you see more/less acceptance of LGBTQ in society?
  4. How can we build an atmosphere of inclusion, regardless of our personal or religious views?

Benefits/Consequences

  1. Why are “firsts” crucial to note? What other barrier breakers have you witnessed in your lifetime?
  2. Since many national figures hold come out, is it easier for employees in your organization to enter out?
  3. What is the biggest or most common misconception about trans people?

LGBTQ Panel Discussion Questions about the Journey

  1. What kinds of things might a person who is lesbian, gay, bisexual person, or transgender go through when coming out?
  2. What kinds of things might a trans p

    Asking the right questions helps you build trust and intimacy, and understand if the relationship is right for you

    Finding the right questions to ask in a gay relationship can be challenging. When embarking on a fresh relationship or deepening an existing one, it’s crucial to question meaningful questions that create connections, foster understanding, and build affection. If you are reading this, chances are you may be struggling with:

    • Knowing which questions will facilitate genuine conversations
    • Identifying questions that can help you better comprehend your partner’s perspective on existence, love, and relationships
    • Overcoming communication barriers that may arise due to unique challenges faced by lgbtq+ couples
    • Cultivating trust, vulnerability, and heartfelt intimacy in your relationship
    • Not knowing the right questions to inquire to truly understand your partner’s thoughts and feelings
    • Struggling to develop a strong emotional connection with your partner
    • Wondering if your questions are relevant or if they might offend your partner

    In direct to help alleviate these concerns, I have compiled a list of questions based on my personal experience as a queer man and as a homosexual re