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A Gay man's concerns about both Erect... - Prostate Cancer A...
I had a robotic prostectimy on March 20, 2020. I actually had a slight erection occur within a few weeks, but haven't had any more since. My Urologist prescribed Calais, but it hasn't helped at all. I really desire to have a full erection again, but really need my normal flacid state as adv. I feel at times that I literally have beaten my penis through this procedure, but I had to rid my body of the Cancer, which it has done that so far. Prostate cancer killed my father over 25 years ago, and I'm glad that I have rid myself of this cancer. I worried though that it came with a price, but next week I'll be trying injections to aid with my erections. I asked my Urologist if I'd have to accept them from now on, or if they may support improve my blood flow and actually bring back normal erections through hour. He told me that it may just help everything come back through being able to "exercise " in a cense. I hope it does help, but day will tell.
As for sex, I was worried about my ability to have all pleasure since I am a gay gentleman. I have always enjoyed being a bottom the most and w
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Does my erect cock look normal?
Outside of some type of true deformity, accident or even complication after circumcision, most guys erect cocks look normal. Normal is a relative term and should be avoided. The real issues are, do you hold a healthy cock and erections? Erectile dysfunction is a real and growing problem, which we well address in another Piece in the General Health section, but if you are proficient to obtain an erection, trust us, it looks normal.
Our friend Frank Cosmo, from Cosmopolitan magazine. (Shut up, we just read it for the articles) has some thoughts on the types of erections guys have.
The Pee Boner. This is a fake-out boner that really just happens when you really, really, really have to pee, and goes away right after, like stepping on a garden hose.
2. The Morning Boner. This greets you in the morning with a stiff hello, like a butler that can only pee and ejaculate. This boner is the Egg McMuffin of morning sex: The two go well together.
3. The Ghost Boner. This one comes along and leaves appreciate the wind. There’s nothing happening around you to position it off, there’s no one to see it. It’s just there and gone like an appa
6 Surprising Facts About Men and Sex
“Many partners don’t even want a male to have a larger penis!” Queen says. “If every man who worried about penis size used that energy to understand more about his partner’s optimal sources of arousal, there’d be far more bedroom happiness.”
One study even found that women preferred greater girth over length for one-time sex partners and although women were found to prefer penises that were about 6.5 inches prolonged, they also tended to overestimate size.
According to the first systematic review of penis size measurement, the average length of an erect penis is 5.6 inches, and the average circumference is 4.59 inches. The study, which deeply interested more than 15,000 men around the world, also found that the average length of a flaccid penis is 3.61 inches, and the average circumference is 3.66 inches.
“While it’s true that some acquire a size preference when it comes to their partner’s penis, it is not always ‘bigger is better,'” Queen says. “For some women, vaginal intercourse is less comfortable when a partner’s penis is large—especially longer. Much more relevant to a woman’s pleasure is how aroused she is—before intercourse. Penis size is bes
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will consider bottoming at some age. However, the thought of doing it for the first second can be scary. Don’t permit that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in thick arse play like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can obtain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Endeavor not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can construct you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do use amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs like Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w