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The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering unlike gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t concern. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ group, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve insert together an ever-growing list of Gay terminology.

At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will authorize improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you investigate, it’s important to understand their differences:

  • Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
  • Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
  • Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)

Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and straightforward communication. It’s key

The Go-To Relationship Guide for Lgbtq+ Men

From Honeymoon to Lasting Commitment

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Gay relationships are different.

Many of us didn't have lgbtq+ elders as role models. Some of us have faced personal and societal trauma or felt lost in a Second Gay Adolescence. We can't simply squeeze ourselves into the heteronormative structures we've been offered and assume to find happiness.

Weaving theory with personal experience and case studies, this workbook gives you the tools to build a rich, deep, gay relationship. Adapted from the Bader/Pearson developmental model of relationship therapy, and suitable for those practicing both monogamy and alternative relationship structures, this guide supports you from the first flush of the honeymoon to a place of authentic commitment.

  • Published: Mar 21 2025
  • Pages: 240
  • 212 x 134mm
  • ISBN: 9781805012658

The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.

I’m scared of bottoming

Most gay men will contemplate bottoming at some moment. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. 

You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse perform like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can find douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.

Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do utilize amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:

  • have been linked with an increased exposure of HIV transmission 
  • don’t mix with erection drugs enjoy Viagra and may bring about a heart attack.

Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.

Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w

LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide

Zero.

Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that necessitate sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.

Most sex teaching programs, instead, believe that those receiving the information are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less charming than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.

That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two gay sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the correct complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.

Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.

This reference is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.

It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:

  • “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
  • “Is there a risk of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
  • “What can I do to build sex even better?”
  • “How do I become comfortable with my own body?”

Or anything else related to sexual health, sexual plea