First gay sex experience
My(35M) first gay sexual encounter is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, 2020 11:10 PM Subscribe
Hello. I am a 35 year old cis man, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.
A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.
Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!
So long story short, I've met a kind, gentle gay bloke who knows about this history of mine and is interested in creature my partner in this adventure. The big date is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I realize I should try to be spontaneous but I have so many questions! What are things I should be ke
14."I went on a trip to a tropical country. I found a miniature, secluded, resort-type place with a exclude while exploring the area. I spent the entire night there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go study by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me..."
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came support with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could seek , and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
Do you remember your first time? Your first experience with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete meaning. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first same-sex attracted experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our possess acceptance and the urge to explain the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a limited of our friends from around the world to divide their first same-sex attracted experience with us, whether it was a first-time homosexual kıss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've fix it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
We'd love to know your story as well! Please feel free to add it in the comments section below. We also share more inspiri
Tips for cis men who desire to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s crucial to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and spot as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We speak trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are empathetic